Monday, February 09, 2009
despite my best attempts at remaining positive and giving people the benefit of doubt, i realised that disappointments are inevitable. i think it's a general rule of thumb to not have high (if any) expectations at all. obviously, the higher your expectations are towards certain things/people, the larger the disappointment. it's like what they say, the larger you are, the harder you fall.
sometimes, for whatever reasons it is, there's really no point in saying so much. there is no point in doing so many things for a person. because at the end of the day, that person will let you down. despite how many times you help a person, there's only so much you can do. at the end of the day, it boils down to how much the person WANT something. it's could be love, it could be friendship or it could be work. what a person WANT in life determines how hard he/she will fight for it. determines his/her fighting spirit. but once that fire is extinguished or even the small spark, there is no point doing so many things for him/her. they won't appreciate it. they will take for granted. so why do we have to put in so much effort, when they are just going to turn ard and stick a middle finger out to you? when they would just without a thought, throw your good will back into your face? when they are just going to chew you up and spit you out?
perhaps this is a depressive post. yes. but then again, what is not depressive in this world. i only hope that these people will open their eyes soon, before it's too late. and the people who truly care for their well-being disappears from their lives.
** updated**
although the day was quite irksome for me, i've managed to uplift my spirits. well, my aunt did. went to her place for dinner, and to my surprise and delight, she cooks lor duck's neck for me (she sent my uncle to specially buy from the market)!!! and bak kuet teh!!! and many awesomely delicious food that really made me feel happier. so thanks a million dua kim!!! i love u.... as much as i love duck's neck... ahahha kidding. i love u really.
sometimes, for whatever reasons it is, there's really no point in saying so much. there is no point in doing so many things for a person. because at the end of the day, that person will let you down. despite how many times you help a person, there's only so much you can do. at the end of the day, it boils down to how much the person WANT something. it's could be love, it could be friendship or it could be work. what a person WANT in life determines how hard he/she will fight for it. determines his/her fighting spirit. but once that fire is extinguished or even the small spark, there is no point doing so many things for him/her. they won't appreciate it. they will take for granted. so why do we have to put in so much effort, when they are just going to turn ard and stick a middle finger out to you? when they would just without a thought, throw your good will back into your face? when they are just going to chew you up and spit you out?
perhaps this is a depressive post. yes. but then again, what is not depressive in this world. i only hope that these people will open their eyes soon, before it's too late. and the people who truly care for their well-being disappears from their lives.
** updated**
although the day was quite irksome for me, i've managed to uplift my spirits. well, my aunt did. went to her place for dinner, and to my surprise and delight, she cooks lor duck's neck for me (she sent my uncle to specially buy from the market)!!! and bak kuet teh!!! and many awesomely delicious food that really made me feel happier. so thanks a million dua kim!!! i love u.... as much as i love duck's neck... ahahha kidding. i love u really.
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